Friday, August 14, 2026 - Nollywood actress, Nkechi Blessing has questioned the pressure to associate with self-acclaimed “Lagos big girls” and constantly display one’s lifestyle on social media.
The actress shared her thoughts in a post on her Instagram
page amid the ongoing public feud between socialites Diiadem Adeola and Dabota
Lawson.
Nkechi said she has never been interested in identifying
with the “big girl” lifestyle, adding that she is more concerned about having
her own space, eating well and being able to travel.
She also questioned the belief that people who do not
display their lifestyle online are financially struggling, saying she is
comfortable with her own lifestyle and does not feel the need to prove her
financial status on social media.
Writing in pidgin English, she said, “Na una want be friends
with self acclaimed Lagos big girls by force. People wey be say na online
aesthetic want wound them, the moment you go close, you go too pity them,”
Nkechi wrote.
“Me, I be Yankee broke girl. I no kuku identify with
anything big girl, make I sha dey see food chop and ticket money to fly round d
world… who get pass me no concern me,” she added.
Nkechi further said she prefers to maintain her privacy but
would not hesitate to handle major financial responsibilities when necessary.
“The pressure to belong to the so called Lagos big girls can
never be for someone like me that likes my space, but when matter of 100m to
200m sup we go chest am without flinching…. Cus we no dey post lifestyle dem go
call us broke,” she said.
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